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New Life, Bali!

I did not realize, it has been quite a while since my last post.  But life has been wonderful so far, and I am enjoying my new life here in Bali.  Daniel took up the job with a fine dining restaurant managed and owned by local. At the right time I got an offer from a luxurious five-star hotel in Nusa Dua. So yup, all is perfect! Lets catch up more often now, I know my biggest challenge is managing my time, to spare it a little bit to write, it was my best stress therapy alright, it should be now too.  So, I am running out of battery, but will write again soon!  Love, Manusia Nia

She Arrived

No post in 2013 so far, I have been very lazy and keep on blaming my pregnancy for it, now that the baby is out I don't know what else to blame. Yes you got that right, the baby is out! Baby Mika, she was born on 20 May 2013 at 18:16. Weight: 3,530 kg and height: 53 cm, perfectly healthy baby girl! Now, I could not really stick to this blog for too long, my stitches are still very painful and I have to go back to my Baby Mika. So long for now.

Pregnancy: Catching Up

A lot to catch up, especially about baby. With all my excitement for this pregnancy, I am also busy and tired most of the time so managing my time to spend for this blog became one of those "mission-impossible" things. Okay, lets make this short and sweet shall we? 20 Nov 2012 I had a scan with Dr. Widad and found that the baby grows active and happy, she is 12w5d. I had a bit of bleeding, I was thinking because Dr. Widad did the internal scan. I was quite worried but she said nothing to be worried about. 8 Dec 2012 Routine check up (2nd check up) with Dr. Wafaa and review the scan result, she confirmed that every thing is perfect. no weight gain. That is most important for me. No Weight Gain!! Weight: 89,2Kg 15w Mission: Maintain the weight, and taking the supplement diligently.

How To Get Mortgage Loan Approved for Indonesian Working Abroad

Talking about dream home, we thought it was impossible if we were still working abroad. But it turned out to  be a dream come true. With the limited financial we knew we will not be able to buy our dream house, although it would be sufficient for the down-payment but not for paying the whole thing. Buying a house is no cheap, when we see the price of the house, we would forget there are some hidden price we need to pay, such as -the most consuming one- taxes, yup!! And at the beginning we have no clue it  would cost us so much more than we have budgeted. Let me share you little bit the process of getting a house in Indonesia - if you are planning to get a housing mortgage. 1. Get in touch with the sales person, let him tell you more about the house you are going to buy, since you are abroad, you may need to ask as many questions as possible in order to understand more about the property and the vicinity you are going to live in. 2. Be friend with the sales person, he may...

RIP Tiny Little Brain Cell

I sometimes feel really desperate that I don't have time for myself anymore, I am losing that one cell in my brain that gives me the words to be written. It upsets me in fact that I have nothing to say, as if my mind freezes in such a way that I don't even know what to think, what to write, and I know for a fact that if I continue this that tiny little cell I am talking about would eventually vanish and I could not get it back. To write has become a therapy for me, my own way to meditate, to stay calm and controlled. By not doing this, I feel like zombie, like seriously dead man walking. I created a twitter accounts, incognito, even 140 characters I was not able to create a sentence.  Just a little update about my pregnancy:  Nausea, none. Weight gain, going there, but controllable, although new maternity skirt for work is needed. Weight: 87kg Sunday appointment with dr. Wafaa, Medcare

The Third One, On The Way

It has been 8 months since my last miscarriage, now I am expecting my third one. Although I am still scared from what happened, but I guess I am more ready now. I will face everything ahead of me, I will not back down. My baby now is so good to me, I dont really feel sick - only when I brush my teeth I feel sick in my stomach, but other than that I am perfectly okay. Let see what happen, I just hope he will be alright.. LMP: 24 Aug 2012 Due Date: 31 May 2013 (based on LMP) DueDate: 9 June 2013 (based on USG) Weight: 87Kg Pregnancy Mission: Eat Healthy Food, to maintain weight and gain max of 10Kg (another impossible mission!)

My Dream House is Just A Dream

Sudah berbulan-bulan proses pengajuan KPR kami, sudah dari Bank A sampai Z, masih saja belum goal. Kami tau kendala kami adalah karena kami berdua kerja di luar negri.  Setelah begitu banyak penolakan, sudah hampir 3 bulan ini proses pengajuan KPR kami di Bank BII di proses, pelayan yang sangat memuaskan dari pihak bank dengan follow up nya yang sangat profesional, mengetahui kami tinggal di luar negri pihak bank tidak berkeberatan melakukan komunikasi melalui email bahkan apabila ada sesuatu yang penting tak segan mereka menelpon sambungan internasional. Beberapa hari yang lalu, kami terima sms "pak, sudah acc", aku dan suami yang sudah menanti kabar ini sejak lama merasa sangat gembira sekali. surat persetujuan dikirim melalui email dengan dilampirkan syarat dan ketentuan KPR, yang hampir seluruh persyaratannya bisa kami penuhi, kecuali satu: payroll suami harus di setor ke BII!! Mau marah.. This is the whole point why we got rejected by the other banks, karena gaji k...