Cooks for Two Kitchens
Seriously ladies, how hard is it to learn how to cook? Just a normal simple food for dinner or lunch rather than starving to death waiting your chef husband to come home and cook for you.
Since I worked in a hospitality industry, I know lots of wives who marry chef. A friend of mine who married with chef, update the status saying that she was so happy that his husband had arrived from work so he can cook her dinner, I was like "what?". The poor chef has worked the whole day, probably more than 12 hours a day to cook meals for his costumers and came home knowing he has to cook for his wife too.
Someone commented on her status saying "lazy!", and she answered "Haha I'm not..but I dont know how to cook :D".
No offense to her, really she is a good friend and sweet lady. Maybe it is the culture and religion thing that makes me concern so much about how wives should treat their husband. Wives back home were told to always respect our husband, to love him, to have children with him, to take care all his needs at home which is include home, food, clothes, and of course sex. What's in it for us? Appreciation from husband, the love and the security, and of course blessing from God.
What I mean to say is, just try a little harder and make little bit of effort to please our husband, learn things we don't know, it wont be perfect but we will get there someday. Small gesture from us to at least try is something he would appreciate. We got his love, that is for sure, and if we try just a bit harder to provide his needs, we will get so much more than love.
Since I worked in a hospitality industry, I know lots of wives who marry chef. A friend of mine who married with chef, update the status saying that she was so happy that his husband had arrived from work so he can cook her dinner, I was like "what?". The poor chef has worked the whole day, probably more than 12 hours a day to cook meals for his costumers and came home knowing he has to cook for his wife too.
Someone commented on her status saying "lazy!", and she answered "Haha I'm not..but I dont know how to cook :D".
No offense to her, really she is a good friend and sweet lady. Maybe it is the culture and religion thing that makes me concern so much about how wives should treat their husband. Wives back home were told to always respect our husband, to love him, to have children with him, to take care all his needs at home which is include home, food, clothes, and of course sex. What's in it for us? Appreciation from husband, the love and the security, and of course blessing from God.
What I mean to say is, just try a little harder and make little bit of effort to please our husband, learn things we don't know, it wont be perfect but we will get there someday. Small gesture from us to at least try is something he would appreciate. We got his love, that is for sure, and if we try just a bit harder to provide his needs, we will get so much more than love.
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