Apology


Lying can never save us from another lie. Therefore here I am trying to let myself go from the circle of lies by saying I apologize that I have lied to people that I respect. Nothing from my behavior is worth forgiveness but I ask for it anyway.

I regret for having told the half truth and understand that it would still be a lie. I have my reason for not telling the truth, it is understandable that I should have not lied for what ever the reason is. I was intended not to hurt anybody's heart by keeping the truth for myself, I wasnt thinking that I am going to hurt them eventually and the impact could have been even worst I am ruining my own reputation as a good friend, honest friend.

I wish I can still be seen as someone who has the integrity although I truly accept that this one single lie has destroyed a whole reputation of integrity.

I lied so many times to those who gave me the opportunity to grow, I let them down despite for all the good things they have given me.

I say, no more... from this time I will only tell the truth even the bitter truth.

For you that I have been lied to, you have all the rights to not accept my apology, and not see me as a friend anymore. I dont even have any guts to tell you in the eyes how sorry I am for what I have done, although I was so brave and looked into your eyes and lied.

This is my humble and sincere request from the deepest of my heart, if you read this you know exactly what happened.

When you forgive, you in no way change the past - but you sure do change the future. 

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